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M.S. Rakhmatova
SOME QUALITIES OF AN UZBEK FAMILY IN RAISING A CHILD
This article highlights some qualities of an Uzbek family in raising a
child.
Key words: qualities, Uzbek family, education, child.
Man is born into a family for happiness and goodness, and this dream lives on with hope. Rituals related to the birth of a child in Uzbek families and rituals are available, each of which is done with good intentions. One of them is naming the baby, keeping the chilla small and on the floor, cradling the baby, the first step, starting to talk for the first time, teeth symbolism of the birth, birth, circumcision of boys, family ceremonies associated with the first muchal have Such ceremonies and rituals add joy to the child's joy, has a positive effect on his spiritual maturity.
The most important period in the family for the healthy growth of the baby is the chill period. This period is divided into small (20 days) and large (40 days) chilla periods. This period is not to leave the young mother and child alone, not to let anyone into the room where they live (not even hygienically), to bathe the baby frequently in salty, earthy water (excess body hair is shed), not to make the mother work, to eat energy-boosting foods to do, not to go out at night and not to bother (mother and child may tremble, be afraid of a certain ghost, resulting in decreased milk or get sick), not to keep the child in the dark, not to upset the mother and child, not to frighten them ing is a guarantee of health.
In the East, special attention has long been paid to the diet of lactating women. The young expectant mother should eat strong foods that bring milk, not to consume onions, garlic, pepper, alcohol, drugs in order not to spoil the milk. These are painful for a child's body.
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ISSN 2223-4047
BecmnuK Maeucmpamypu. 2020. № 4-1 (103)
Alla - lullaby is one of the ancient, important types of songs of the Uzbek people is calculated. It is difficult for a child who does not enjoy the mother goddess to have a feeling of love for his parents and homeland in his heart. Raising a child in a family should begin before he is born. Pregnant
the woman is in a good mood, her nerves are calm, the food she eats is childish
should be beneficial to the organism. It is her job to do her work on time, to rest, to travel, to eat, to think about the fate of the child she will give birth to function. A healthy spiritual environment, kindness, and joy among the couple and other members of the family are the key to a safe, healthy birth of a child.
Sometimes disrespect for each other, quarrels, wars, forced labor instead of caring for a pregnant woman, humiliation, and even assault on a pregnant woman can lead to the birth of a child who is sick, disabled, or irritable. leads to. It is natural for even the best traits in a parent to be inherited in addition to the bad traits. Even in the unborn child, a feeling of affection for the parent begins to form in the mother's womb. Sometimes a husband's quarrel with a child before the birth of a child, such as "If our child is a girl, you go to the right father's mind" or "Do not expect me to visit the maternity hospital," can certainly have harmful consequences for both the expectant mother and the child.
Therefore, it is necessary to follow the teachings of the sages about raising a child before he is born. A man brought a newborn baby to a wise man and said, "Taqsir, when should I start raising a child?" He said. "How many days has your baby been born?" Said the sage. "Two months, sorry," said the father. "Come on, you're too late, you should have started raising in your mother's womb," said the sage.
In order for a person to achieve his goal and live happily, he must strive, show zeal, and do good to others in order to be loved.
In the formation of man, in finding his place in life, in the glory of the nation.
The family plays a key role in gaining respect and inculcating high moral standards. The family is a place where the person who ensures the continuity of life is formed, ethnic culture, traditions, moral and national values are preserved and developed, the foundation of economic and spiritual life, which determines the development of society, is laid and strengthened.
When the family is harmonious and harmonious, peace and harmony will be achieved in the society, and peace and stability will prevail in the state. The foundations of upbringing in the family are laid. It is a school of life that nurtures all the human attitudes and qualities that must be formed in a child.
The Uzbek people are childish by nature. Tolerance, kindness and self-sacrifice towards the child are the characteristics of our people.
Our parents create the necessary conditions for children to get a thorough education, to acquire a profession according to their interests, to know and follow the rules of etiquette. Because the proper upbringing of a child in the family is the key to building a strong society. Child rearing is a comprehensive, long-lasting complex process with its own characteristics
RAKHMATOVA MATLUBA SIDIKOVNA - teacher of the 43rd general secondary school of Chartak district, Namangan, Uzbekistan.
