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УДК 616-053.31
Sharapova M.A.
Psychologist of school № 4, Kagan, Bukhara region
FEATURES OF THE ERA OF EARLY NEONATAL PERIOD OF
NEWBORN CHILDREN BORN FROM MOTHERS WITH IUI
Annotation: This article examines the social relations associated with the manifestation of suicide, as a negative social phenomenon, interconnected with crime
Keywords: Problem, suicide, tragedy, suicide, temperament
The problem of suicides, especially among young people and children, is now becoming increasingly acute and relevant. Tragedies occur both in families, which are commonly called "disadvantaged", and in those in which there are no external prerequisites for such a terrible outcome.
Why does a person decide to commit suicide? The answer, it would seem, is obvious - because life at some point seems unbearable, and death seems to be a way out of an unbearable situation. However, this seemingly obvious answer has its pitfalls. First of all, even the most difficult, critical and intolerable situation is not the whole life. This is often not recognized by people who decide to commit suicide. More often than not, a person who says "I don't want to live" means "I don't want to live like this". Understanding this nuance puts a lot of new questions before a person and often allows you to open a new perspective on your situation: "I don't want to live like that. And I want to live - how? Why I do not live as I want? What can I change in my current situation? Can I do it myself, or do I need help? Whose? What kind of help do I need? Who can support me? "...
The risk of suicide arises, one may say, at the crossroads of three factors: peculiarities of a person's character and temperament; external circumstances - a difficult life situation; ideas about death.
Consider each of these factors in more detail: Character and temperament. There are many classifications of psycho-emotional states of a person. However, it should be noted that some character traits may become a more suitable ground for suicide attempts. Paradoxically, these traits are almost opposite. This is a depressive and hysterical type of character. A depressive type is characterized by a reduced emotional background, a feeling of emptiness, the meaninglessness of life, one's own uselessness, loneliness, lack of bright emotions, both positive and negative, etc. Suicide can be a carefully planned, planned step for a person with this type of character.
The hysterical type - it is also called theatrical, - can use suicide attempts as a way to attract attention. In choosing this path, a person with this type of character can be guided by momentary strong emotions.
Attitude towards death. Paradoxically, often people facing a decision on suicide do not perceive death as something final. Death is seen as a way out of the current difficult situation, however, it is often not recognized as a complete cessation of mortal life. Especially often similar thoughts and fantasies about
death are present in children and adolescents with suicidal tendencies. They are characterized, for example, by fantasies that they will watch their funeral, listen to what friends and relatives will say about them ... By the way, the content of these fantasies often becomes valuable material that can give a lot of information about a situation prevailing in the life of a child or teenager. Grievances, fears of the child, unrecognized conflicts, etc. may become apparent in them. In the event that a suicide attempt is provoked by grief from the loss of a loved one, death can be perceived as reuniting with the deceased.
Suicide prevention. The "deceit" of suicide lies in the fact that it is often committed by people who do not talk about him, do not express such desires, do not reveal their inner feelings to others. Attempted suicide, as well as obsessive thoughts and desires to commit suicide, are an indication to go to a psychiatrist or psychotherapist. It is important that friends and relatives around a person give him support, acceptance and warmth, especially in difficult life situations.
Literature:
1. Antonyan Yu.M. Violence. Person. Society. M. 2001
2. Berdyaev H.A. About Suicide. M .: Publishing House of Moscow. University, 1992
3. Vagin I.O. Psychology of life and death. St. Petersburg, Peter, 2001
УДК 159.92
Sirazhiddinova Z.M.
Lecturer of the department "Pedagogy and Psychology ", TSGI FEATURES OF ADOLESCENTS SELF-RELATIONSHIP DEPENDING ON THE TYPE OF PERCEPTION OF THE FAMILY SITUATION
Annotation: In this article, subjective fullness in adolescents of the concepts of "family well-being/ distress "
Keywords: Family, character, personality, teenager, self-consciousness
The problem of the formation of the personality of an adolescent is currently receiving a great deal of attention in society, due to the ambiguity and inconsistency of the manifestations of this age stage. Already in many journals and studies devoted to the study of the psychology of adolescents, the ambivalence of character traits and behavior of a child during this period is noted. As positive manifestations of this age, we can highlight the growth of a child's creative activity, which is reflected in literary, musical and artistic creativity, striving for achievements in the field of sports, educational activities, etc. However, despite the need to stimulate and support this category of adolescents, public attention is mostly drawn today to the negative side of a child's life at this age stage. We are talking about drug addiction, juvenile crime, suicide. The combination of positive and negative manifestations of the period of adolescence is associated with changes occurring in the adolescent's psychological world: the emergence of a conscious "I", the emergence of reflection, the intimization of the inner life, awareness of one's motives, the experience of moral conflicts and the
