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Section 7. Sociology
https://doi.org/10.29013/ESR-20-3.4-40-44
Razzakova Nargis Yuldashevna, Basic Doctoral (PhD) of the National University of Uzbekistan named after Mirzo Ulugbek E-mail: nargisrazzakova2020@gmail.com
THE ROLE OF THE FAMILY SOCIAL INSTITUTE IN THE DEVELOPMENT OF SOCIETY
Abstract. This article describes the priority of state policy in strengthening society and the family in Uzbekistan, the ideas of the President of the Republic of Uzbekistan aimed at raising a healthy generation, respect for our national traditions. Also, analysis and recommendations on the socio-psychological basis of preparing children for marriage in the educational process by teaching children from an early age knowledge of family ethics and psychology, the role of family and society in the lives of young people building their spiritual life and future.
Keywords: Society, family, modernization, healthy generation, national traditions, education, family ethics, psychology, strong society, Action strategy, spiritual and moral education, psychological and pedagogical theories, strong family, social welfare.
Introduction. The family as a social phenom- Legal basis of the Family Social Institute in
enon is a great invention of mankind. There is no Uzbekistan. One of the priorities of the Decree of doubt that the unique prestige of the family is a re- the President of the Republic of Uzbekistan dated ality of great social significance. The family is the February 2, 2018 PF-5325 "On measures to radibasic unit and social pillar of society. The happiness cally improve the activities in the field of support of and well-being of every family is ultimately a con- women and strengthening the family" is to promote dition for the stability, prosperity and well-being the economic and legal framework of strengthening of society. Also, the family is a great policy not the family to carry out their work. In Uzbekistan, only of one country, but of all mankind. Needless the tasks of the state are to strengthen the family, to to say, it is public policy. After all, the survival and ensure that family members can exercise their rights continuity of humanity comes from the family. In without hindrance, as well as to protect these rights. this regard, it is important that the political, social, It is worth noting that the state has created a legal economic, educational, biological and physiologi- basis for the protection of the family, as well as atten-cal problems of the family, which is the foundation tion to the system of economic support. of a healthy and strong society in Uzbekistan, are on The state has created a legal basis for the recog-the agenda of the state in accordance with modern nition of family stability as social stability. A vivid requirements. example of this is the adoption of the Constitution
of the Republic of Uzbekistan on December 8, 1992 and the Law of the Republic of Uzbekistan on April 30, 1998 by the Oliy Majlis approving the Family Code of the Republic of Uzbekistan. These two documents fully reflect the importance that our state attaches to family problems.
Chapter XIV of the Constitution of the Republic of Uzbekistan is dedicated to the family. Article 63 states that "The family is the fundamental group unit of society and is entitled to protection by society and the State". There is an inextricable link between the social system established by the Constitution and the family. It is noteworthy that our basic law takes into account our national and human values.
The development of the family in Uzbekistan is considered at the global level in the framework of the United Nations Sustainable Development Goals, as well as in the Action Strategy for the five priority areas of development of the Republic of Uzbekistan for 2017-2021.
There are, ofcourse, reasons why so much emphasis is placed on strengthening families in our society. Because it is in this environment that the original human qualities such as return to ourselves, respect for our national traditions, respect for the elderly and care for the young, humanity, honesty, nobility, kindness are formed. That is, we consider the family, which is our unique national value, as the main foundation in building our own spiritual life and future. As Abdurauf Fitrat said, "Where the family relationship is based on strong discipline and order, the country and the nation will be just as strong and orderly."
There is no nation or people today that has not focused on developing the family and respecting its values in its own future. It should be noted that a healthy spiritual environment in the family, the creation of a spirit of mutual respect among family members, the preservation of our high moral and spiritual values, the inculcation of a healthy lifestyle in the minds of our youth are the most pressing tasks today.
Particular attention is paid to the formation of children's spirituality in the family from an early age.
Psychological and pedagogical theories, according to scientific conclusions, the psyche of children in early childhood (from 1 to 3 years) develops very rapidly, this development is intensified during the period of preparation of children for school (from 3 to 6 years).
In the family, parents are responsible for the spiritual and moral upbringing and development of their children, which is one of the duties of a parent to his children. In our country, there are legal norms that require parents to educate their children. Article 73 of the Family Code of the Republic of Uzbekistan is devoted to "Rights and obligations of parents in the education of children", in which parents have the right and obligation to bring up their children; the obligation of parents to take care of the health, physical, mental, spiritual and moral development of their children; the superiority of parents over all other persons in the upbringing of their children; parents are required to ensure that their children receive the necessary level of education as provided by law.
The role of the family as a social institution in the development of society. From ancient times, our people have paid great attention to the education of children in the family. Consequently, it is an indisputable fact that the independence and stability of the state and society are directly related to this issue. That is why the upbringing of children and youth, especially the formation of high spiritual and moral factors in them, is one of the most important and priority tasks of society in all times and places.
It is no coincidence that our great enlightened ancestor Abdullah Avloni said: "To bring up a child well is to keep the body clean, to correct the profession from an early age, to teach good manners, to protect and nurture from bad manners." The spiritual and moral upbringing of children is formed, first of all, in the family.
It is known that in the East, the family and society, in which the relationship of parents with children acquires a unique socio-psychological appearance. For example, in South Korean President Lee
Myung-bak's book, "Miracles Don't Happen," he says, "A family where parents and children don't talk is unhappy. Parents who do not listen to their children are also unhappy. Children who are abused by their parents are also unhappy. But the conversation isn't heartfelt, it's just that the family, which is held to talk, is also happy will not happen. Communication takes place only when the child is a child and the parent is a parent, and there is respect and trust between them" [3].
In this regard, the President ofthe Republic ofUz-bekistan Shavkat Mirziyoyev said, "Take care of your own home!" "Take care ofyour child yourself!" I think it's time to add that," he said [2]. Because the upbringing of children is a complex process, the roots ofwhich go back to the family, neighborhood, society. Upbringing is not only a personal affair of a parent, but also a social duty. Through the educational process, there are such noble intentions as the future successor to be selfless for the country, to be a loyal citizen, to seek peace in the country, to preserve independence. The development of society is achieved only through the perfection of children. Hence, the upbringing of harmoniously developed children has always been one of the urgent tasks of every age. As noted by President Shavkat Mirziyoyev, "A child is a deposit in the hands of parents," say our great scholars. Today's life proves in every way that our children, their destiny and future are really very safe. If we don't give our child the right upbringing, every day, every minute is his Ifwe are not aware of their behavior and mood, if we do not teach them science, if we do not find a decent job, we will lose this deposit" [2].
We all understand that a strong family and a happy life, the mutual socio-psychological stability in it, depends primarily on the young people who are getting married, their intelligence, spiritual qualities, a deep understanding of their duties and responsibilities to the family and society.
In each country, the institution of family and marriage is formed under the influence of religion, customs, culture, morals, traditions [4, 464-466].
Ensuring family stability by creating a healthy psychological environment in the family, studying the role and impact of interpersonal relationships in a healthy psychological environment in the family, monitoring and analyzing the level of evaluation of interpersonal relationships in the family by family members.
In the family system, the duration and stability of the family are assessed through careful consideration. When expressing an opinion about the family and making decisions, more attention is paid to external and social opinions due to the fact that an individual's opinion about his family is subjective [5, 361-371]. Therefore, it is important to study the reflection of economic, social and cultural changes in our country in family relations, which are the basis of the national spirit of the people.
Any family in society performs the following three main functions from a socio-psychological point of view:
1. The social function of the family.
2. The economic function of the family.
3. The educational function of the family.
The social function of the family. Since the family is a part of society, it must participate in socially useful work and perform its economic function on the basis of the money earned in return for this work. If family members (husband, wife, and adult children) do not participate in useful work in society, but only for their own benefit and engage in activities that are harmful to others, such as theft, robbery, extortion, etc, such a family will surely fail.
The economic function of the family. Husband and wife, adult children, and at least one member of the family are involved in the production of material and spiritual goods for the society and earn their living through honest work spend their money on marriage. This includes housekeeping, cooking, laundry, sewing, tidying up rooms and courtyards, looking after the yard and gardens as well as pets and poultry, purchasing household utensils and household items, entertaining guests, and organizing family ceremonies. and perform all similar farm work.
The educational function of the family. While this is also an important task, it is secondary because the educational task (because it is spiritual) relies on some material basis (i.e., income). This task is to see the child and bring him up. Correct social and economic responsibilities.
Failure to do so may result in divorce for families with one or more children. A child is a miracle that binds father and mother together, instilling in the family the love of the couple for each other. This will require raising this child. It is necessary to bring up a healthy, energetic, well-educated, cultured, well-rounded person with high spiritual qualities, in accordance with the existing social system.
It is known that our people have always considered the family sacred and treated family relations with respect. Therefore, the primary link in any relationship with the lifestyle of our people is the family and the family environment.
As the First President of Uzbekistan Islam Kari-mov noted in his book "High spirituality is an invincible force", "In order not to make mistakes in the issue of family upbringing, first of all, It would be worthwhile to build on the basis of mutual respect, morality and human relations" [1].
Another important issue is to create a healthy spiritual environment in our families, in particular, to ensure that the relationship between spouses, parents and children, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, neighbors in the spirit of mutual respect and kindness - is the key to peace and harmony in our country. it should also be noted that it is the most important condition for further strengthening.
Conclusion. Taking into account the above, in order to strengthen the family in our country and to develop a healthy child and ensure the welfare of society, it is expedient to solve the following tasks in each family:
- Encourage parents to demonstrate good human relations, including exemplary behavior, in front of their children;
- Strengthening the example of parents in ensuring the stability of young families;
- Deciding on the harmony between moral education in the family and school and community education;
- occurring at different ages of their children to parents through 'Parent Universities' in the neighborhoods;
- organization of special conversations and discussions on psychological features and meetings with qualified specialists;
- to keep in mind that the family is a social necessity of society and to always keep in mind that its strength is the strength of society and the state, and to strengthen family relationships;
- To prepare our children for marriage in the educational process by teaching them knowledge of family ethics and psychology from
an early age, to teach them the philosophical, moral, socio-psychological foundations of the child;
- To inculcate in the minds of young people the moral and psychological concepts of exemplary life on the basis of the analysis of the essence of social concepts such as chastity, customs, traditions, national consciousness and national language in family life.
The family is the cradle of values that ensure the eternity of life and the continuity of generations, a unique place of upbringing for future generations. Everyone finds happiness in this world only and only in his family, how each person enters life as a person depends, first of all, on the product of his upbringing and upbringing. After all, building a family on the basis of the harmony of our national values and modern views is the conclusion of yesterday, the choice of our people, who live with confidence in the present and the future, the happiness of living based on strong spiritual roots. After all, a healthy family environment is a solid foundation for a prosperous, peaceful life.
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