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Nuraliyeva D.M. teacher of Fergana State University Uzbekistan, Fergana city STUDYING SUSCEPTIBILITY TO THE BEHAVOIR OF THE PAIR IN THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN MAN AND WOMAN AND GIVING A
SOCIAL-PSYCOLOGICAL HELP Annotation: The article resolves the issue of studying susceptibility to the behavoir of the pair in the relationship between man and woman and giving a socio-psycological help for strengthening family pies by fortune out problem. Key words:family, couple, pair,attitude, emotional closeness, satisfaction
We know that humanity is developing. It is well-known that the social environment plays an important role in their adult life. At this stage of development, they have been provided with a variety of conditions. The concept of maternity in marriage, in turn, is a very complex and relative concept. Because a person is always a progressive, professional, and progressive newcomer to spiritual and moral development. If we speak of the "full maturity" of a person in one or another of their work, then this means that they have reached a certain limit and cannot be further developed. From this perspective, "maturity" serves as an indication of a certain level of stages, phases, quantitative and qualitative characteristics of the transformation. The question of maturity of a person to marriage and family life is an indefinable indicator that cannot be measured by a strictly determined principle.
Initially, a short test method called "Course" by M. Saloxina was obtained. This methodology is aimed at learning the tendency toward the spouse's behavior. The methodology helps to determine the expected behavior of the spouse or the unacceptable behavior of his or her spouse
The examiners were given the following instructions: Imagine you came to choose a seat in the store, but the choice in the store was limited. Which of the following chairs will you choose from? There are meaningful phrases hidden in the answer variants, as it would be difficult to know the inner psychological impression of a person when he was asked if his open attitude to spouse's wish to behave.Answers are given in terms of satisfaction with the responses of two respondents, one response option, and one suggestion that changes in the behavior of two respondent spouses (Annex 2) .The results are shown in Table 8.
Table 8
Answer options Women Men Total result
Duration of Marriage Total result (38 ) Duration of Marriage Total result (36 ) Duration of Marriage Total result(74 )
5-20 years (18) 21-35 years (20 ) 5-20 years (21) 21-35 years (15 ) 5-20 years (39 ) 21-35 years (35 )
material covered 2 2,2 3 0 26,3 28,5 6 0 41,6 2 5,6 42,8 33,7
skin covered 11,1 3 0 2 1 14,2 4 0 2 5 12,8 34,2 22,9
made of wood - 4 0 2 1 14,2 - 8,3 7 , 6 22,8 14,8
as soft as a pillow 11,1 - 5,2 23,8 - 13,8 17,9 - 9 , 4
the massage equipment is installed 5 5,5 - 26,3 1 9 - 11,1 3 5,8 - 18,9
As can be seen in the table, 33.7% of the respondents want their spouse to be with him regardless of where and under whatever circumstances they are, based on the test key, indicating that they are satisfied with the behavior of their spouses. The highest percentage of satisfaction among respondents was recorded in middle-aged men - 60%. Young married people also have lower marriages than middle-aged family members by 17.2%.
22.9% of them are satisfied with the conduct of their husbands, but they want their spouses to be more open in family relationships.
18.9% of the examinees want their mate to be more affluent and concerned about it. There are conflicts in their attitude. This response was not recorded in middle age. In young women this figure is 55.5% and 19% for males. Given the emotional and emotionality of women, it is evident that men want not only economic but also spiritual support. Emotional stability in families indicates lack of experience.
Middle-aged women would like their husbands to pay attention to their appearance and behavior. This indicator is 40% for middle-aged women. In men with younger age, this figure was 14.2%. In middle age men and younger members of the family, such a wish was not recorded.
23.8% of younger respondents stated that their spouses would be more gentle and calm.
The following conclusions were drawn up on the fact that the examiners had a tendency toward the conduct of their spouse with family motivation motives.
According to women respondents, 18 (47.3%) of married couples have 10 (55.5%) of those who have a well-deserved estimate of their satisfaction and 8 (44.4%) as satisfactory created. Psychological dissatisfaction with the spouse was recorded in 8 (38.8%) women.
Of the total number of married couples, 8 (21%) were married and 6 (75%)
of them were satisfied with their well-being and 2 (25%) were satisfied. The psychological dissatisfaction with the spouse was recorded in 4 (50%) women.
12 married couples (31.5%) and 12 people (100%) who have a great deal of satisfaction with their marriage. Psychological dissatisfaction with their spouse was recorded in 12 (100%) women.
According to respondents' answers, 12 (80%) of those who have traditionally enjoyed the marital status of married couples were 15 (41.6%), and 3 (20%) were satisfactorily satisfied with their marriage. Psychological dissatisfaction with their spouse was recorded in 6 (40%) men.
Of the total number of married couples, 3 (8.3%) were married and 2 (66.6%) of them were satisfied with their satisfaction, and 1 (33.3%). Psychological dissatisfaction with one's spouse was recorded in 1 (33.3%) males.
Of the married couples, 6 (16.6%) had 5 (83.3%) of those who rated their satisfaction as satisfactory and 1 (16.6%) who rated satisfactory. Psychological dissatisfaction with their spouse was recorded in 3 (33.3%) males.
Of those who wanted to have a baby, 12 (33.3%) had 9 (75%) of those who rated their satisfaction well and 3 (25%). Psychological dissatisfaction with their spouse was recorded in 3 (25%) men.
Seriotypes were generally 33 inmates, and 13 of them (39.3%) were dissatisfied with their spouse. Seventeen married couples were 18 and 15 (83.3%) were dissatisfied with their spouse.Generally, married couples were 11 respondents, of whom 5.4% were dissatisfied with their lifestyle.
The findings of the study suggest that the stereotyping of Uzbek families would help ensure that the families are self-reliant and stable.
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